http://www.sextipsfree.com/sexuality/woman-and-her-insecurities-she-thinks-she-is-fat-611/ Free sex tips and sex advice resource site for all your sex needs: sex tips, g-spot, masturbation, sex massage, tantric sex, sex positions. Sat, 10 Dec 2011 11:18:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.sextipsfree.com/sexuality/woman-and-her-insecurities-she-thinks-she-is-fat-611/comment-page-1/#comment-68561 experienced Wed, 28 Jul 2010 14:03:02 +0000 http://www.sextipsfree.com/?p=611#comment-68561 With all respect - this article is full of really suicidal advices which seem to be based on stereotypes rather than experience. I personally often (asked or not) tell girls/women with full honesty that they have too big/small ass or tits, that I don't like their haircut, that they're too old or something like that. Only that I do it with a big smile, laughing with my eyes, nearly joking, so that she knows that despite not liking it - it's not that important for me. I found out that such a humorous honesty is much better than any compliment - girls love it, they laugh it up and probably feel a bit less concerned about this insecurity afterwards. In contrast - telling her what you think that she wants to hear is just groveling. You won't even improve her mood, cause she knows that you're lying. Nobody's perfect - she isn't an exclusion. Insincere flattery is just the easiest way to loose all respect in her (and your own) eyes and quell all attraction that she feels towards you. As an alternative to trying to realise a master plan to make her like you I propose just being yourself. Full stop. With all respect – this article is full of really suicidal advices which seem to be based on stereotypes rather than experience. I personally often (asked or not) tell girls/women with full honesty that they have too big/small ass or tits, that I don’t like their haircut, that they’re too old or something like that. Only that I do it with a big smile, laughing with my eyes, nearly joking, so that she knows that despite not liking it – it’s not that important for me. I found out that such a humorous honesty is much better than any compliment – girls love it, they laugh it up and probably feel a bit less concerned about this insecurity afterwards. In contrast – telling her what you think that she wants to hear is just groveling. You won’t even improve her mood, cause she knows that you’re lying. Nobody’s perfect – she isn’t an exclusion. Insincere flattery is just the easiest way to loose all respect in her (and your own) eyes and quell all attraction that she feels towards you. As an alternative to trying to realise a master plan to make her like you I propose just being yourself. Full stop.

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