Woman and her insecurities: She Thinks She Is Fat

Compared to the men, women are more meticulous when it comes to their appearance. It is unlikely that you would hear a bunch of guys talk about another guy’s big and fat ass. This is only possible if you want to spend your night out with the boys at the gay bar.

Woman and her insecurities

One of the major factors why women are so conscious about how they look is because they were flooded with images of thin women even at an early age. You can never see a doll that has excess fats on her tummy, arms, and legs, can you? So for them, the way look or how they appear in front of the people is very important. This also reflects their personality at the same time.

Yes, this has a big effect in most women. But men do not actually know how severe the effect is. Some just thought that women are born to hate men and everything that is all about men.

On the other hand, women pay more attention to their appearance compared to men because they want to stand out. Since men also have this animal instinct to have different partners, they just want to be different from the rest of the ladies out there. At the same time, they also want to get the best genes available as much as possible. This is why they do not just have sex with any guy, unlike men who aren’t that picky at all compared to the opposite sex. Studies showed that in 2002, most women only want guys who they think has the best genes so they can pass it to their future kids as well.

Because of this, there’s no wonder why women give so much attention to their appearance. And you should be thankful that they do. You surely do not want to lay someone with a big belly just like you. You may end up having a shrivel penis again and again.

But there are just some women who overdo this. And if you are her man who already got tired of the same old complain such as fat ankles or excess belly then you can make use of these tips that would make her feel more comfortable about her body.

• When she asks if she got a fat ass, never ever tell that it is. Women just think that is fat when in fact it isn’t. But if she really has a fat ass, just lie.
• Do not be too eager to help her feel comfortable. Because if it looks too obvious, you are actually doing more harm than good. Notice her ass from time to time and tell her how nice it is. During unexpected moments, give her a naughty ass pat as she passes by. You might also want to give it a little squeeze when you make out. And during sex, kiss it or lick it. She would definitely love how you adore it naturally.
• If she asks that she’s got a bigger hips than before (just like her ass), make her feel more comfortable by touching or massaging those curves.
• Heard about the cellulites rant? Whenever she asks you about the cottage cheese in her tights or just below her butt just say that you don’t notice anything.
• When she starts to get sad because she thinks that she is not that pretty compared to the other girls she see, always make her feel like she is. In the first place, if she is not pretty, you would never have that interest to bang her and be with her. But of course you should not tell her that!
• Skinny or legs that is too fat. There are some who complain about the so-called bird legs which are usually skinny and long. If this is the case, try to give her a relaxing massage on her feet and legs. You might end up touching what’s in between those legs as well.
• Her guts are big. Even if she gained some pounds, never tell her that you notice the bulging tummy.
• Talking about her wrinkles. There is no way to deny this flaw since a mirror could already let her see the growing number of wrinkles on her face. Just tell her that the more wrinkles she gets, the more you love her.

The most important thing is to make your woman feel beautiful and make her feel comfortable about her appearance. It is not an issue of winning her over because you already did, that’s why you are together. It’s all about understanding her insecurities and helping her overcome these flaws.

Many people are living one lay after another. After having sex, they would think about the next time that they would have sex again. That is why men say these things to their woman. As soon as they have sex with her, no fat ass or wrinkles can stop you from reaching their climax.
If you still don’t know how to start, here’s a good tip: You tell her things that would make her feel beautiful because you want to get laid again. Never lose that focus. Because the more insecurities she has, the lesser chances of you getting laid again real soon.