Making Her Squirt – 10 Common Mistakes
Making a girl squirt isn’t always easy. But we’ll make it as trouble-free as possible by pointing out the 10 most common mistakes, and how to avoid them.
1. Being Squeamish
Believe it or not, there are many women who are embarrassed and even ashamed of their squirting orgasms. This can be blamed on previous partners who ignorantly believed that her squirting was “gross”, “messy” or even that her orgasmic fluid was urine. This sort of attitude is the reason why many women actually force themselves to hold back their squirting orgasms – no matter how great it would feel for them.
There’s no room for prudish when it comes to great sex. Ease her mind by communicating (through both language and actions) that her body fluids are sexy and that she’s safe from embarrassment when she’s with you.
2. Not Enough Foreplay
Most women won’t even be able to have a regular orgasm without sufficient foreplay – let alone a squirting one. A long, sensual massage is a great way to get her blood circulating while simultaneously putting her into a deeply relaxed, trance-like state. Needless to say, you shouldn’t stop there.
3. Not Using Enough Lube
A squirting orgasm can take much longer than a normal sex session. She may run out of natural lubrication no matter how aroused she is. If this happens it may cause discomfort or distract her mentally. Keep some lubrication handy and don’t be afraid to use it.
4. Using the Wrong Technique
A limp wrist and one finger just isn’t going to cut it. The same goes for two fingers in a simple back-and-forth motion. Even if she likes it, it probably won’t give her a squirting orgasm. Do it the right way by learning the four techniques on the How to Make Her Squirt page.
5. Failing to Find the G-spot
G-spot stimulation is essential to a squirting orgasm. Every stroke of the G-spot builds up more and more fluid for her ejaculation. It’s also responsible for her eventual orgasm (obviously).
Not sure that you’ve found the G-spot? Try the following:
- Feel for a rough, ridged spot two inches inside on the front wall of her vagina.
- Check to see if the area enlarges from repeated stimulation.
- Ask her! G-spot stimulation should feel very pleasurable, give her the slight urge to urinate, or both.
6. Not Enough Pressure
It’s great that you’re trying to be gentle down there (women often complain that guys are not gentle enough), but you’ll probably have to apply more pressure than you think to effectively stimulate her G-spot. Start soft, but increase the pressure until it’s quite firm yet not making her uncomfortable.
You’ll know you’re doing it right if your arm gets tired.
7. Giving Up Too Early
And, yes, your arm may get very tired. In some cases it can take a good deal of time to build up her ejaculation fluid and give her a G-spot orgasm. Some people have even reported nearly an hour before a successful squirting orgasm. Hang in there!
8. Stressing Her Out
Even though it may take some time for a squirting orgasm, sex should never feel like work. Be very careful not to focus too much on the end goal of her squirting. This puts unnecessary emotional pressure on her and causes way more harm than good. If one (or both) of you just isn’t having fun anymore, stop and save it for another day.
9. Soaking Everything
More than one mattress has been tragically ruined by a particularly voluminous squirting orgasm (Trust us). You might want to switch out those expensive silk sheets with a cheaper pair and lay a few towels down. Making her squirt in the car probably isn’t the best idea either.
10. Giving Up Entirely
Some women are able to ejaculate almost on command. Of course, they aren’t the norm or you wouldn’t be reading this right now.
If squirting doesn’t come easily to your girl, don’t worry. It doesn’t mean that she’s not capable. She just might need a little extra attention and more than one session. Don’t put needless pressure on her, but don’t give up after one try either!