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How to have a more passionate and satisfying relationship

Submitted on Thursday, 28 January 2010No Comment

What’s the secret behind those couples who can’t seem to get out of their honeymoon phase? If you want to have a unparalleled sex life with your partner, read on to create a pleasurable, passionate and steamy lovemaking starting tonight!

Passionate relationship

Passionate relationship

Try to be more sensual

Men just want to “get it over” with no matter and it does not matter to them how fast or how slow it is. As long as they have reached their climax, everything is A-okay with them. But it is different for the women. They want their lovemaking to be a journey. Though they also have their climax just like men, they want it to be more sensual by touching her body parts like her legs before you reach what is in between.
The truth of the matter is there are more sensual spots other than just the genitals. This is for both men and women. Some of these sensitive areas that need attention too when making love includes neck, ears, hair and arms. Try to go through these areas during your lovemaking. You will be surprised to know how it can give pleasure to your partner and how it can add more intensity to their orgasm at the same time.

Work on sex positions that will satisfy you best

For the women: You can try the reverse missionary. It can be compared to the typical missionary position but it would be the woman who is on top. This position can make the woman reach her climax. She will be in control of her own sexual height since this allows her to stimulate her own G-Spot.
For the men: All animals do the rear-entry or the doggy style. No wonder why men also enjoy this as well. This may not be as romantic as the missionary position but there are so many advantages if you will work on this. Guys dominate the women in the doggy style which gives them more satisfaction and intense climax.

Try to have fun under the sheets

Sex games can help you to get the best orgasm ever! Not only that this is fun but it can add that excitement under the sheets too. You would surely want to do these games again and again to create anticipation between you and your partner.
You can use almost anything when it comes to sex games. Dice, cards, or even sport games can be incorporated in your lovemaking. How about using toys or even foods like strawberries and cream? The possibilities are endless. It is just up to your fantasy and creativity.

Prepare your room for romance

Everybody loves a romantic ambiance when making love. Put up some incense, music and candles before your partner gets home. They would definitely love you more than ever. It is not just the women who will be delighted to see this but men as well. This moment would be one of the most memorable times which both of you would treasure forever.

Offer a sensual massage

After setting the mood, take things further by giving your partner a massage of a lifetime. Before proceeding to the make out session, make them feel more relaxed. At the same time they would also feel very important because of your effort in massaging them. To make it even sexier and more sensual, be bare when giving them the massage. Undress your partner little by little or vice versa to create more anticipation. Do not just use your hand in massaging but your other body parts as well such as your lips, breasts and even feet.
A sensual massage does not require you to study in therapy schools. Just pick up a nice scented body oil and do anything to your partner that would give him or her the experience that they would never forget.

Give pleasure and create anticipation through oral sex

Oral sex is actually a way that would help you strengthen a relationship. Why? Not everybody has the will to get down and dirty you know? Fellatio is not just a sexual act for men but it can also help them relax at the same time while you satisfy their libido. On the other hand, women can get a powerful orgasm through cunnilingus. This is why oral sex plays an important role during foreplay for both men and women. You might want to read these tips to perform better oral sex.
Tip for the women: If you want to give oral sex to your man make sure that you do not suck his penis immediately. It is essential that you should start giving soft touches first, a little teasing and strokes that would make them as for more. This would result to a heightened anticipation and intense orgasm.
Tip for the men: Do not thrust your tongue in your woman’s clitoris and vagina. Though this may stimulate the said parts it would be better if you think of her genitals as an ice cream that needs to be licked. A great way to perform cunnilingus is by writing the alphabet using your tongue on a woman’s clitoris.

Take advantage of the items around the house

If you are really aiming for a hotter and steamier love making, then you should be creative. The more creative you are, the healthier your sex life would be. And would you believe that the best way to do this is by using the household items?
Surprising but it is true. Almost all of the items that you can find in your house can be a tool for spicing up your relationship with your partner. Rolling pins can be used for massaging, ice can stimulate and give their body parts a tickle or cool sensation, cards can be used to play sex games, and so many others.
If you would only take time looking for the right items, your lovemaking will become very phenomenal in no time. It is like taking your lovemaking to a whole new level especially if you use it in ways that your partner do not expect you to.

About the Author:

Michael Webb is the author of “Sex All Around The House – Using Everyday Household Items To Spice Up Your Sex Life,” helping you get in the mood, prolong the passion and create totally new sensations. andpicked from over 1500 tips.

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