How to give a women a sensual massage


The first thing to remember about giving a sensual massage to a woman is that it is all about the woman. It is not foreplay for sex, although it might end up being so, it should be just her partner giving everything they have to her. If you make it pleasurable enough then it is likely that she will feel the need to return the favor, so use that as motivation rather than immediate sex after the massage.

Sensual massage

If you are used to giving massages then you will understand the basics, but if not there are a few things to remember. You will need oil or lotion to rub on to the body and for a sensual massage this needs to be suitable for internal use and you may want it to be edible. You may want to buy something from an adult shop as it is likely that they will have the ideal thing for you.

It is important to realize that you should not pour the oil or lotion straight on to the body. It will be cold and that is not a pleasurable experience. Therefore you should put some in your hands and warm it between your palms by rubbing them together before then applying it to the woman’s body.

Do not rub too hard, the aim is to be soft and gentle. It is worth remembering that sometimes the softer the touch, the more pleasure the woman feels so it is worth experimenting with very light touching. You should be able to respond to her movements, or ask her to tell you what she is enjoying and what she is not. It is good to be open with each other as then you will be able to perfect your technique and she will get the most possible pleasure from the experience.

It is worth talking about whether she would like to be blindfolded. This is said to increase the other senses and may be something that she enjoys doing. It would mean that she would not know where you would be touching next, which could be a very pleasurable experience for her.

Just because you are giving her a sensual massage does not mean that you have to just include her erogenous zones, It might be more fun to tease her and massage her outside for a while and then inside and then outside again. It is good to alternate between places which will make her aroused and places which are not normally so arousing. It is also a good idea to massage areas that you do not normally touch, perhaps the ears, back of neck or backs of knees. Touching somewhere new could be erotic for her, you may discover a new erogenous zone or she may just feel turned on by being touched somewhere new.

Remember that you do not have to just use your hands to massage her. As long as you use lubrication, any part of your body could work, arms, chest and feet for example. It may be good to try your tongue and mouth as well as the extra heat that these produce can be very pleasurable.

Do not rush things, think about your partner and how she is feeling. You will be bale to tell whether she is enjoying things or not and perhaps discuss it. Do not rush her to reach an orgasm or even try to make her have one. She may be happy without having an orgasm or may want to make the pleasure last for a long time.

You can see great two great video examples of sensual massage and sex massage.