Common mistakes in lovemaking and how to prevent them

Those who are trying hard to become more intimate to their partners end up in giving a less satisfying experience instead. They do the same mistakes again and again even though they want to have an improvement in their lovemaking. Read on and assess yourself if you are also doing the same mistakes as well.

1. Cannot open up to your partner about trying new things

If you want to spice up your lovemaking and your relationship, it is best that you confront your partner about this. They too would like to try out a new idea. However, they also feel embarrassed or just too uncomfortable to talk about these just like you. Adult toys or chains are not really necessary. You can have so many other ways on how to become even more passionate. Make sure that both of you are comfortable about it before trying out.

2. Persuading your partner to have sex

Not all the time that your partner wants to make love. Work, stress, and finances are just some of the factors that make them feel weary. Convincing them to have sex during these “down” times is a big mistake. However, if you really have the need or you are sexually aroused, here are some tips that may help you get your partner in the same mood as you are.
Women who want to initiate can give their men oral sex or fellatio during 9 to 10 am. Men’s testosterone level is at its peak during these hours. Better yet, wear something sexy or be in your birthday suit.
Men on the other hand can give passionate kisses to their women. Touch their sensitive parts like the face, hair, and caressing her body may also do the trick. Focus first on the neck to increase her desire for lovemaking.

3. Taking no time for foreplay

Usually, men just want to penetrate and thrust when they want to make love. But they must also know that foreplay is an essential part of lovemaking especially for women. It creates anticipation and intensifies the orgasm at the same time. Do some kissing, caressing, and tease your partner. Make them yearn for more so that your intercourse will be even more passionate.

4. Including adult toys or pornography to have a better lovemaking experience

No plastic toys or adult videos can make you patch up your rough sex life. Even though these “tools” are said to improve your relationship with your partner, they actually do the exact opposite. Yes, it may be pleasurable for a moment or so but in the long run you would realize that it was a big mistake incorporating the intimacy of your relationship. There is a big chance that your partner would no longer look forward to the times that you would give them pleasure. Instead, they would just have to rely on these adult materials and that is something that you would not want to happen, right?

5. Making your woman reach her orgasm through intercourse alone

Men do not reach their sexual satisfaction once they are done. They also want to make their women reach orgasm as well. But because of this objective, they often forgot that women are not like them. Having an intercourse is not the only way to make a woman reach her climax. Knowing and mastering the art of oral sex or cunnilingus would actually make this possible.

6. Trying to reach orgasm together

There is no such thing as “finishing” it off at the same time. You must know that women’s orgasm must be satisfied first. Rather than doing a position that you love, think first about the ways on how your woman can take pleasure in. Give her first that satisfaction so that both of you can end it up with a passionate and more intense climax.

7. Lovemaking becomes a routine

Things may become repetitive. Instead of looking forward to the surprises that may happen anytime soon both of you starts to take off clothes and make the following minutes a routine. If you would continue to have the same old normal lovemaking then there is no doubt that it will get boring and dull eventually. See to it that you have something new in store each and every time that you get intimate to make your love life fiery like it used to.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. Here you can read my 500 Lovemaking Tips book review.