Men Have Fears About Sex, Too

Most men and women would agree that when it comes to being nervous about sex, the nervousness is usually on the part of the woman in the relationship. At least, it is them that confess their nervousness.

Contrary to popular belief, men have fears about sex, too. They are not all as confident as most might think, and a jerky attitude might just chalk up to insecurity.

Still don’t think that men can be insecure about sex, too? Take a look at some of the common fears that men say they experience before they get ready to get down.

Fear of Not Doing It Right

Just like women, men also fear not doing it right. Their sexual performance depends on the ability of their penis to perform, and sometimes it can fail them. That’s right—they fear not being able to get it up. In addition, they are afraid of what is going to happen when they do. Sex is different for everyone, and they may fear that the way they do things is not the way that you want them to do things.

Fear of Comparison

Women don’t like to be compared to other women. Men don’t like being compared to other men, either. The man in your life may feel like you are comparing him to other men that you have been with. He wants to be the only one for you, and he definitely wants to be the best you have ever had. Even if he’s not, make him feel like he is. It will only make your relationship better.

Fear of Size Issues

Yes, that’s right. Men think they aren’t big enough—most of the time. Unless they are truly packing something under there, it is easy for them to feel like what they are working with isn’t quite enough. Reassure them that their size is fine with you, and that they have all you need.

Fear of Rejection

In addition to all of the above, men feel that they may be rejected by you. If they seem standoffish and refuse to be intimate, reassure them that you are ready to get it on and see how things change.